Well summer is almost upon us, warm weather keeps sneaking in and it’s already starting to happen. Your asking, “What’s Happening?”. The hinnie phenomenon! Lord help us…please!
I’m sitting in a Doctor’s office yesterday and this woman comes in with 2 children. She’s dressed in a cotton t-shirt and cotton shorts. First off, unless your under a size 12, cotton shorts stretch out and they just don’t look good, so just avoid them, please. But that wasn’t the worst part of it, it was the length of the shorts. Her hinnie was on the verge of hanging out for all to see.
Now I know with hot weather coming along people are going to be trying to stay cool. All I’m asking is that you do it with a little class and a little thought for your fellow people. There are beaches, pools, lakes, etc where you can go and cool off and it is generally exceptable to pretty much let it all hang out, but let’s keep it to those places? I do not need to go to the grocery and see your butt.
Hold on Guys, your not off the hook here either. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with a finely toned chest on display, I even find a slightly untoned chest and tummy rather nice to look at, but look in a mirror before you go outside! If it’s pasty white and looks like unbaked bread dough, put your shirt back on. If you could pass for a grizzly bear, put the shirt back on. I know there are women out there who love a hairy man, but not every woman does so be kind to those who don’t. If you have a size 50 beer gut hanging over your jeans, put the shirt back on and put down the beer. If you have a jungle of armpit hair….consider doing something unmanly. lol Yes, dehair them. (That wasn’t an earthquake, that was a thousand men reading this and falling off their chair in shock and outrage)
So please please give some thought to what your wearing this summer and be kind to your neighbors. Keep your butt cheeks firmly inside your shorts, your boobage inside your shirt, keep the bread dough hidden, and the hair under cover.
I do this every day. I get dressed, go in front of the full length mirror. I look from the front, the side and over my shoulder at the back before I step out the door. I make sure everything that should be covered is covered and that I’m not going to scare small children or cause a wreck. Please do the same for me. 
May 15th, 2008 at 11:09 am
isn’t it up to anyone themselves what they wear or don’t wear ? Like the post on gay couples those four words could go here as well.
“none of our business” okay i do agree that not everybody looks great in shorts and even i don’t like to skin for five people on one person i still think it is their business.
if you don’t want to see it don’t look. I f it is obvious they made a mistake in dressing tell them, be honest but stay polite, after all, it is purely All of their business and none of ours.
May 15th, 2008 at 12:15 pm
I used to feel the exact same way and I used to dress to that affect. I used to love to wear shocking colors together and odd combinations and I used to tell my friends if people don’t like it don’t look. I’m also overweight and I have a habit of saying if you don’t like it don’t look. But when I’m forced to look at people’s butts, their boobs, their blubber hanging over their jeans, or their underwear. Where do you draw the line? At what point do we have a right to say enough?
May 22nd, 2008 at 12:41 pm
at what point do you ask, well at no point at all. freedom of thought, speech and expression. as long as no-one gets hurt by it , it’s up to them.
and i know it is sometimes hard not to look but when you don’t like it, look away.
i know i do.